"I should "

I should…

 

Be happier…

 

Be further ahead by now…

 

Have better relationships…

 

Be less reactive…

 

Have better boundaries…

 

Our ‘shoulds’ can limit us.

Let’s do something about it.

Hi. I’m Myra Batalvi, parent to twins, Pakistani-Torontonian and a Registered Psychotherapist who can guide you past your ‘shoulds’ to the heart of what really matters, and help you get there.

Things about me that you probably want to know

 
 
  • I started my journey as a market researcher and consultant for Fortune 500 companies. As I advanced the career ladder, traveling and working in Brazil, Japan, France and Germany, I started to realize I wanted to help people truly overcome their issues.

  • I switched gears, completed a double Masters in Psychology at Columbia University and trained as a psychotherapist in New York.   

  • My expertise includes working with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, familial conflict, childhood traumas, building resilience, and learning how to better manage life transitions (including career, academic and relational). 


  • I work with individuals - adults and adolescents - as well as with couples.

  • I continue to invest in professional development and I’m currently enrolled in an advanced training program in psychoanalytic psychotherapy to deepen my work with clients. 


Ok, I think I’m ready to do this. What happens next?

I get that the “getting started” part of therapy can feel uncomfortable. And the process that follows? Will it be heavy? Messy? Challenging?

Yes, it can be, but you will not be doing this work alone.


STEP ONE:


Book a 15-minute consult call

This phone call is a chance to think together about your questions and reflect on whether beginning with an initial session feels like the right next step.

STEP TWO:


Schedule your initial sessions

If it feels like a match, we’ll get our first sessions on the calendar.

STEP THREE:


Collaborate on treatment plan

Following 2-3 assessment sessions, we’ll return to your goals and collaborate on a path forward, aligning on a treatment plan and frequency that best fits your needs.

Real Challenges. Real Changes.

Real Challenges. Real Changes.

  • In my experience as a therapist, I find that people who seek therapy have something fundamentally right with them rather than something “wrong with them”. As my clients navigate the challenges that bring them to therapy, they also hold an inner sense that life can and will improve.

  • I agree with my clients who consider psychotherapy an adventure in personal growth, an exploration of who they are, and a process to seek answers to what they want to do in life.

  • What I do not believe is that doing the “deeper work” takes forever, or alternatively can be accomplished in a session or two, because a Band-Aid solution isn’t going to cut it. Trained in a wide range of therapeutic approaches, I collaborate with my clients to use short-term/solution-focused work alongside depth-oriented processes. (More info on the approaches I use here!)

In my practice, I’ve worked with clients to…

go from here
to here
I don't know how I feel
I clearly know and articulate what I feel
I pretzel myself around others’ demands
I set healthy boundaries that protect my energy
I numb out when life feels overwhelming
I have tools to move through my emotions and stay present
I burn out when work and life get stressful
I lean into new ways to take the pressure off
I avoid conflict and hard conversations
I navigate difficult conversations with more ease
I pretend to be someone I'm not
I feel true to myself (and am rediscovering who I always was)
I feel like nothing matters
Life feels more vibrant and purposeful
I'm having strong reactions to things in the present that make me wonder “what was that really about?”
I recognize that my ‘over-reactions’ stem from something rooted in my past
I have unhelpful patterns in the way I relate
I'm changing old patterns to give myself more choice in the present
I'm feeling unfulfilled in my relationships
I have a greater sense of safety and meaning in my relationships

Approaches I use include:

* It is important to note that you need not select a particular form of therapy. As a licensed clinician, I can help guide you to the therapy approach best suited to your needs. Many of these techniques can be drawn on when needed.

 
 

Approaches I use include:

 

* It is important to note that you need not select a particular form of therapy. As a licensed clinician, I can help guide you to the therapy approaches best suited to your needs. Many of these techniques can be drawn on when needed.

Questions folks almost always ask me:

 

Don’t spot your questions here?

No problem — just book in your free consult and we can chat through them together.

  • "Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate."

    C.G Jung