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Registered Psychotherapist at Yonge & Sheppard • Depth-oriented therapy in Toronto • Virtual across Ontario
You’re usually the one people can count on. You get things done. You keep going.
And yet, under all that capability, things can feel much messier.
You find yourself repeating patterns you thought you would have outgrown. Getting overwhelmed by things that seem like they shouldn’t affect you this much. Feeling stuck when you know there could be more to life.
Maybe you’ve spent so much time being who other people need you to be that when it comes to yourself, it’s surprisingly hard to know what you want, how you feel, or what would actually help.
Sometimes the issues feel like one big, tangled mess and you don’t even know where to start.
You may have tried therapy before and put off trying again because the thought of being asked “where do you feel that in your body?,“ or handed another worksheet has the opposite of a calming effect.
Here, you won’t get cookie-cutter quick fixes.
Instead, you’ll say what’s on your mind and be heard by someone who notices the patterns underneath so you can stop repeating them.
Maybe you’re struggling with…
Anxiety / Self-Criticism
Your mind rarely switches off. You overthink, second-guess yourself, and keep moving the goalpost.
Relationships / Intimacy
You know the pattern isn’t working, but you keep finding yourself back in some version of the same relationship.
Life Transitions / Identity
Something in your life no longer fits, but you’re not quite sure what you want instead, or who you’re becoming.
Hi. I’m Myra.
Therapy with me isn’t about sugarcoating things or agreeing with everything you say.
You can bring the contradictory thoughts. The petty ones. The things you’re embarrassed to admit matter to you. The “I can’t believe I’m saying this out loud” thoughts.
I’ll listen without judgment but I won’t just nod along. If I notice you minimizing something, avoiding what matters, or falling into a familiar pattern, I may draw your attention to it.
Not because there’s something wrong with you.
Because being able to see what you’re doing while you’re doing it gives you the possibility of doing something different.
What to expect
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Schedule a free initial consultation
We can discuss what’s bringing you to therapy and decide whether we’re a good fit to work together. If so, we’ll schedule our first session. I offer in-person sessions at Yonge and Sheppard in Toronto and virtual sessions across Ontario.
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We start where you are
You don’t need to show up with an agenda. Therapy isn’t another work meeting you need to prepare for or perform well in. Start with whatever is on your mind. A fight you had yesterday. Something your mother said ten years ago. A dream. Something you almost texted your ex. Or the fact that you have no idea what to talk about.
Notice the patterns
We start to notice the threads connecting your experiences. I listen closely for patterns, contradictions and things that may be happening beneath the surface.
I’ll ask questions, make observations. Sometimes I’ll offer an interpretation or point out a connection for us to get curious about together.
The aim isn’t endless insight for insight’s sake.
It’s to help you understand yourself well enough that you have more choice.
Do things differently
Instead of automatically repeating a familiar pattern, you begin to notice it. Instead of immediately judging yourself for how you feel, you become interested in why you feel that way. Instead of organizing your life entirely around what you should want, you become better able to recognize what you actually do.
Change can be gradual and difficult to measure while it’s happening. Until one day you realize you responded differently.
Approaches I use include:
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Psychodynamic therapy recognizes the role of unconscious processes in shaping behavior. It focuses on helping individuals become aware of and understand their unconscious thoughts, feelings, and desires that may be contributing to their difficulties. By bringing these unconscious processes to conscious awareness, individuals can gain insight and make conscious choices. More than other approaches, psychodynamic psychotherapy places the emphasis on the therapeutic relationship as a catalyst for change.
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Multiculturally informed psychotherapy integrates cultural considerations into therapy.
It recognizes intersectionality and the influence of multiple social factors. Therapeutic approaches are adapted to align with cultural values and communication styles. Collaboration and empowerment are emphasized, valuing clients' expertise. Cultural disparities and social justice are addressed.
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Couples Therapy employs an integrated approach to treatment depending on the needs of the couple. Ranging from Emotionally Focused Therapies to Behavioural Therapies, Couples Therapy can help you understand yourself and your partner better so that you can change unhealthy dynamics and learn to communicate better. Couples Therapy is not exclusive to romantic partnerships but does have the treatment goal of stronger emotional connections and an overall healthier relationship.
Questions folks almost always ask me:
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Sometimes, because early experiences shape us. But we're equally interested in the present: current relationships, how you feel in the therapy room, what's happening in your life now. The past informs the present; we explore both.
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That's common, and often meaningful. We work with what you do remember, what you feel, and what shows up in current patterns. You don't need perfect recall.
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For recent onset problems with a clear focus, like bereavement or a problem at work, people come for once-weekly counselling for a short period. For issues that are more complex, people tend to opt for longer-term psychotherapy. This is generally weekly, or two times a week to help us work on issues more intensively. We can discuss the best approach for you and your schedule in our first meeting.
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Services provided by psychotherapists are typically reimbursed partially, or in full, by extended health care providers. Because every plan can be different, I suggest ensuring that ‘Registered Psychotherapists’ are covered under your particular plan. I provide all clients with a detailed invoice of their appointments, which they may submit to insurance companies for prompt reimbursement.
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My fees are $195 per session.
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Yes, I do offer a few sliding scale slots for clients.
Don’t spot your questions here?
No problem — just book in your free consult and we can chat through them together.
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"It's a joy to be hidden, and a disaster not to be found."
D.W Winnicott
Approaches I use include:
* It is important to note that you need not select a particular form of therapy. As a licensed clinician, I can help guide you to the therapy approach best suited to your needs. Many of these techniques can be drawn on when needed.